Check out this great column in the New York Times by Amy Allen, a Dartmouth College philosophy and women's and gender studies professor. She perfectly cuts through the false construct of pitting women against each other while arguing over parenting style. I particularly like what she says about third wave feminism, which questions the binary distinctions like reason versus emotion, mind versus body, male versus female. This is so important. It also reminds me of an old joke: There are two kinds of people in this world: those who feel the need to divide the world into two kinds of people, and those who don't.